When someone forbids us from doing something, then we think if we were grown up then nobody would stop us from doing that. But in real life, everyone has the interest in our life especially our parents. Parents demand grandchildren from us; friends help us in settlement of best business. Well, every person around us has his importance in our life because they are to tell us important things that must matter in our lives.
We would shy to discuss this with you, but the fact is we are all in a trap under the psychological tricks. We start to think that these get intrusively placed in our minds at once.
A successful person is he who has the new car, a new apartment, and a new mobile phone.
Well, in real life, the society promotes the living style for their pleasure. And according to them, we can get this by purchasing the new gadgets or the trendy perfumes. And at that time they let to impose the model of the behavior of children who always wanted to make the new toy right at that time. But you would not worry that if you once bought the iPhone the,n you would have to eat noodles for the next six months.
We think that we are not less than a celebrity.
The thinking of yourself to be superior is changing our style of living. Well, do not compare yourself with the TV stars or the businessman who has enough money to support themselves at any time. It is because a girl from a rural area would not have enough money to buy such expensive products and dresses for herself. Also, they cannot even enjoy a vacation to the Maldives as that of the television stars. And hence later she might consider herself to be inferior and develop the thought that she has grown older.
The conditions around these are simple here. If you will have the most beautiful photos on social media, then that means a person lives a is life. And it is the thinking of a person who cannot go for a long and expensive vacation or enjoy eating food at the fancy restaurant. But in the views of the psychologist, the people who love showing off would develop the features of being narcissistic. But the visitors would have started suffering from envy and even get into depression.
Trying to be the best mother in the world.
If you do not feel tired of handling your child, then you are not a good mother. It is the motto of life that a woman can understand only after having a baby. Ok, then let us read out the recommendations of the magazines in which they have given ways to handle a child. A perfect mother is who end up not having time for herself. It is the overprotective nature of the parents that the kids of the present generation are not able to make decisions for themselves independently.
To be shameful of being a cook.
Well, in our society it is a fact in the minds of the people that a person not attaining higher education in of low category. But if you reach the diploma, then you are a perfect person, and to him the doors of prestigious companies are open.
But with that, we completely lose respect for the simple work. In the present world, you would find hardly someone that he wants to be an electrician or a seamstress. It is a case when you get birth in a family of doctors then you would never think of becoming a barber.
Dreaming prominent than your work.
Well, only a few people understand the meaning of climbing up the career ladder step by step and must start your work from zero so that there is no problem for the coming future. You should reach your goal and finally get the freedom you deserve.