Well, if you are polite to someone and if you are calm in front of them, then manners are must for you. If you want to be a right person you must know how can you be a well-behaved person. There can be the number of situations when you need help and courtesy, but they turn to be inappropriate.
Here in this article, we have tried to together the practical nature of the waiters which can be useful for you and will help you make good communication with them in a pleasant manner.
Piling up the plates
Helping someone must be there from the heart, and if you genuinely want to help the waiter, then you must not pile up the plates properly after the use. Waiters follow their proper methods to clean the table in their manner. Your help for piling can be of different way and hence you might increase their work in such cases.
Do not even place the empty plates on the edge of the table for showing that you have done for that time. The waiter can himself see when you have completed your food. And then he will approach you to ask if he can take the plates away or not.
Ordering your food immediately
Many times we have to wait for the waiter for a long time to come to our table and hence till that time we try to find out the best eatable for us and then order the one we want. It is genuine that you study the menu and hence it might take a long time to decide what you should go for. And therefore that waiting time for the waiter is ok because you would also need time to choose what to eat.
The waiter might be busy in delivery the order to those who have come first from you. But you must not shy to ask the waiter come to come to you. They would thank you for not wasting their time.
Choose the seat which you like.
Well, after visiting the empty tables we sit wherever we want. It does not come under good manners. But there might be one point that you must look for it. It is the duty of the host for making the proper sitting arrangement. And hence we want to say that you must not interfere in such matters. It is the procedure of the restaurant authority. Otherwise, a waiter might overlook your presence and may make you wait for an hour.
Thanking them much
If you love eating the food as per the services of the restaurant, then you might want to thank the faculty for that. Waiters generally find out one fact that the most problematic guests for them are those who are heartful or funny. With this, the visitor even tries to shake hands with everyone working there.
But the matter is, with your such actions, you are disturbing the waiters in their work. There might be other guests who must be feeling hungry, and they might get slow service. Do not even forgot to tip them.
Do not be silent when something goes wrong.
There are times when you are feeling good with the dishes, or the waiter might forget to bring the napkins. There can be the number of mistakes that you may even make. Humans only make mistakes. For such cases, you must remind the waiter for your request that you have made before. If you say him the second time, then he might not forget it. And hence you must repeat your words to them.
Helping the waiter
People generally put the used plates on one another after finishing their food. It is not the perfect way you can help a waiter. With your actions, the things might go worse than these. If you are taking your dish from one side of the plate, then you can shift the rest to make the balance. If you want to help someone, then you must remove your belongings like mobile phones etc from the table.