You might genuinely feel someone be your friend but the fact is they might not feel back the same for you. According to the studies it was out that only 50% of the total people think the same back for us. They try to spend time with us, or they might even want to have something from us. They believe to be with a lot of people is the best on their part. No matter if your friend was a mutual choice, but then it may change to something which is entirely different in the time. It is evident that mistakes and fights occur among everyone.
But after the fight, if you are back together again and then you find the friendship to be uncomfortable for you, then it will upset you on a regular basis. You might have no time to think about it, and hence you will have to continue with it.
Here we are with the facts from the psychologists, to sum up, the signs that say about the toxic friend.
Your friend will make you uncomfortable with her other friends.
Your friend will make you clear that they are essential for them than you. It is how she will say that you are boring for her and how she can have a great time together excluding you. It makes you feel jealous and dull even.
For most of the time, you might speak about the matter of your friends, but they might not feel it interesting with you.
When you ask your friend about her friends, then she will be passionate to clear you about them. But the fact is when you will try to say something then they get the urgent message to reply to you, or they will even ask you to start some other reason to listen to you.
Your friend will criticize you consistently, but she will not accept your criticism.
Well, in the case of any relationship or friendship, the criticism is okay to let your friend improve the matters. But a toxic friend might not spare you even and not your feelings when you will say her to go for the gym or get the better haircut. The goal of those friends is not to tell you the truth instead they will try to humiliate you. But the friend might even feel indignant such that you might try to do the same.
You will initiate the meetings than your friend will do for you.
The friend might not be able to feel interested in you to communicate with you. She might not even contribute to your friendship. The next issue can be when your friend might be clingy and even demand your whole time. It is not good on her part in either way.
Your friend will ask you to get changed your ways.
Your friend will always say you that you are wrong in each issue. She will blame you for everything that has happened to you. You might feel softer and even less impulsive in such matters, or there can be else in that cases. But they will be good for you no matter what.
You may fear for the emotional swing such that your friend might be open and friendly to you. Her behavior may differ even.
The next matter that arises for you is the inconsistency. She will behave differently, and her behavior will catch you off guard. Yesterday, you might have a nice chat with your friend on the phone, But today they might be ignoring you for nothing. You might keep asking yourself that what you would be doing wrong to her.
You might get cautious for saying everything that is wrong which might even set the anger off from your friend.
Your friend will get offended with you and might even get angry with you. And hence your brain might not feel stale in her presence. You might feel afraid to say something that might hurt her for no reasons.